How to use this questionnaire
Send it six to eight weeks before the wedding. By then most couples have booked their suppliers and have a rough running order, but there's still time to change things that affect the photographs, such as moving the family groups earlier or asking the venue about an indoor spot for rain. Ask for it back at least four weeks before the day, so you have time to draft a timeline and follow up.
- Send it to both partners. One may know the family politics while the other owns the spreadsheet. Ask them to fill it in together, or at least both read it before they send it back.
- Cut what doesn't apply. A small register office wedding doesn't need questions about a church, and a couple who told you their venue at enquiry shouldn't have to type it again. A shorter form gets better answers.
- Keep the family formals list realistic. Each group takes two to three minutes to gather and photograph, so 10 groups is around half an hour of the drinks reception. The template asks for 8 to 12 groups and names a helper who can round people up.
- Ask for moments, not a shot list. A long shot list copied from the internet turns the day into a checklist, for you and for them. Ask what matters instead: the grandparent who's travelled from abroad, the dog in a bow tie, the view they chose the venue for.
- Follow up sensitive answers by phone. Separated parents, bereavements and people who shouldn't stand together are easier to talk about than to type. The questionnaire gives couples a private place to flag them; a call is where you agree how to handle them.
What to watch for in the answers
- Timings that don't add up. A 14:00 ceremony, a 40-minute drive and a 16:00 wedding breakfast leaves no time for confetti, groups or portraits. Point it out now, kindly, with a suggested fix.
- Officiant and venue rules. Registrars, religious leaders and venues often limit where you can stand, whether you can use flash and what you can photograph during the ceremony. Ask the couple to check directly, and to tell you what they hear.
- Names and pronouns. You'll be calling instructions all day. Use what the couple tell you here, and carry it through to captions and gallery titles.
- Health, accessibility and religious details. These can be special category data under UK GDPR. Ask only for what you need to plan the photography, keep the answers secure and delete them when you no longer need them.
For the questions to ask at every stage, from enquiry to the final week, read questions to ask wedding clients before the day. Once the answers are in, turn them into a wedding photography timeline and send it back for the couple to approve.
In Caloreel, questionnaires go to both partners, use conditional questions so a civil ceremony skips the religious section, and save every answer onto the household's job, where you and your second photographer can see it on the day. See the household CRM.
